Master The Skills Of Speaking In The Workplace To Pave The Way For Your Career.

The command language can give people a sense of discrimination and disrespect. This feeling will weaken people's enthusiasm, and sometimes it will make people feel sick and feel this way. Naturally, it will have a bad effect on the result. To develop such a task or work habits, not only do not lower your authority, but will enhance your charm.

　 1, a word hurts most.

　　 speak It is the most basic requirement to talk about matters, but many times when people speak, they expand and deepen their meanings.

For example, when the child accidentally broke the cup when pouring water, the parents sometimes said, "you are born a black sheep." If you think about it, breaking a cup will characterize the person as a black sheep. What is the difference between this cultural revolution and the Cultural Revolution?

In other words, "it doesn't matter. After that, you can pour your own water to show that you are growing up. We are very happy."

Remember, don't give a conclusion to anyone from a conceptual point of view; don't give a conclusion to anyone in language. Things are changing, people are changing. Everyone has a good side. Every thing has positive factors.

　　 2. emotion Speak less and speak less.

Intelligence is quite low when people are emotionally unstable or excited or angry. Psychological studies have shown that intelligence is only 6 when a person is highly unstable. When emotions are unstable, what is often expressed is not their original intention, reason is not clear, words are not clear, and decisions can not be made. In life and work, there is an endless amount of instances of revenge and even murder.

　　 3. Humor Discourse time sharing theory

Some people are humorous, giving people lots of joy in communication, but humor should be used at different times.

Li Shimin, the king of the Tang Dynasty, was a master of Ming Dynasty. But he was killed by a minister. On one occasion, Li Shimin received a secret report saying that the king of the border area and the king of might be rebellious and negotiated with several officials of the court. At that time, the Minister Li was anxious. Because of the urgency of the matter, Li Shimin and several heavy ministers began to deliberate on the Countermeasures. When everyone was uncertain, Li came back from the toilet. He came back to see that everyone was very serious. He wanted to have a humor and activate the atmosphere. But Li Shimin did not think so. He thought Li Zhan was letting him kill Wang and he said, "according to the Qing," Li also said, "the emperor is holy." After the investigation, Wang did not oppose heart.

　　 4, love is an endless force.

Speaking on the basis of love and expressing your opinions from the perspective of love, people will be able to generate strength. We often make such a joke. When children make a mistake, parents will beat their children in a rage, and they will also say, "am I not good for you?" are you sure your child will understand your behavior as him?

If the subordinates have problems, the leaders will rush ahead and make a final statement: "this is for you to remember, but also for your good!"

　　 5, it is also an art to give up grades.

No one will like a person who takes advantage of his work. People often prefer encouragement and giving results, which is mainly a result of wisdom.

For example, when we are discussing the solution of a certain problem, sometimes we think of it when we are prompted by ourselves. Then we need to say, "you are creative, you can try it." Instead of saying, "I have inspired you."